About parental guide

Today i saw the movie of planet earth at andi's place n also watch facebook movie and also watch finding neverland at home. I just thinked about parental guide..

i just thinked i don't have enough experiences from my family life like my others friends have. Some other's parent let their children see planet earth to know about other world example animal's life. Or other's parents have a habit to pray together between family, or other's family like to visit many places to show their children example Borobudur, Taman Mekar Sari, others country like Thailand. But my parent seems doesn't like that. My family actually so passive, maybe they pray alone to pray another part of family, then i thought my parent have type as support. They support to make sure their children study until university. But maybe they forgot about children need to be learnt about how to life, how to have attitude,and how to dream.

I am very thanksful to get many thing to be learnt from outside. Maybe my turning point of my life happen when i changed my life from jakarta to surabaya, and was realizing that i cannot come to science major at Santa Ursula High School BSD and moved on into Karitas 3 Sby. I live far from my family, and really thanks to know others type of father's brother family. After that decided to back Jakarta again, to study at university but i live at kost near university. I joined an organization during my study.. I learn about organization, friendship and relationship there.
- Organization things that i get is about technical skill and management.
- Friendship things that i get is about togetherness, team work.
- Relationship things that i get is about my selfishness, make me more stronger, and learn how to challange myself become better to run my life. Then i worked at Software House,German Centre, I was learn about banking, then somehow realize about work environment is different with univ environment. Some of people at univ was learning, but at work some of people concern between earn money for making family or about being profesional or both.
But when i moved to Singapore i learn diferent things about friendship more completely ( friendship like family feeling ),
- About Food, How my friend really like to cook & i start to believe from stomach can go to the heart,
- About togetherness we always celebrated friend's birthday, and also spending time to do friend gathering..
- About Story that conflict sometimes happened inside friendship. But we are still friend.

Many things i had learned from my environment, not from my family places.. Maybe that's why my other sister and brother doesn't really mature.. Thanks to many people that makes me learn more, Thanks to God that make me experience many things..

If i could have a purpose of My Life, I am imagining about make a family as challanging experience.. I know i am not perfect as a woman, but as long as i tried to become better is enough.. I want to be active person to make a family member's as a live person (body & soul) to run a reality life.